13 Reasons Why is oft criticized for glorifying suicide and is a magnet for controversy. Although some of the criticism may be valid, I think those denouncing the series entirely are missing the point entirely. Don’t let this kind of talk discourage you from watching and, most importantly, learning from the series and what it has to offer.

The struggles faced by the teens are real world, and if you’re a parent, whether you like it or not, relevant. A part of me wants to tell you to watch it with your teenage child. The rating is TV-MA, clearly meaning this is not for children (MA is MATURE audiences only). There are graphic depictions of sexual assault, the likes of which you’ll never see on an “After School Special" (do they even have those anymore?) Sadly, though, it’s probably no worse than what your teenager has already seen on the internet, or in some cases, even in real life. It’s important to open a discussion now with your teen. IMO, kids 16 and older are ready for this show. In fact, your kid has probably already seen it (even if you don’t subscribe to Netflix).

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